Will the Kids be Ok?

How can I make our divorce less stressful for our children?

This is a common question.
First, let me say how much I admire your focus on your children’s well-being just by asking the question. Divorce can be challenging for families, but with thoughtful steps, you can help your kids feel supported and secure.

Here are some tips:

1. Keep Communication Open
   Talk to your children about the divorce in an age-appropriate way. Listen and respond to their concerns. Assure them that both parents will continue to love them despite the circumstances.

2. Avoid Conflict in Front of the Kids
   Children can sense tension. Do your best to keep arguments and disagreements away from them. Mediation is a great way to work through tough issues outside of the presence of the children.

3. Create Stability
   Consistency is key. Keep routines as normal as possible. Try to build a parenting time routine with each parent.

4. Work as a Team
   Even though your relationship as spouses is ending, your partnership as co-parents remains vital and will last long past when the children are grown. Collaborative mediation can help maintain good-will so that you can peacefully co-parent.

5. Get Support
   It’s okay to seek help from a counselor, family therapist, or support group- for the kids too.

Remember, children thrive when they know both parents are committed to their happiness and security. Mediation can help you build that foundation. If you’d like to explore how I can assist with this, feel free to reach out.

Wishing you strength and clarity.